The Silver Lining in Everything

For the first time, my son celebrated his birthday without me. When he cut the birthday cake with my husband, I was at a trauma center...
The Silver Lining in Everything, a part of Dr. Ivy Ge's mini blog series - thought bubbles

My son turned sixteen. For the first time, he celebrated his birthday without me. When he cut the birthday cake with my husband, I was a hundred miles away at a trauma center after being brought in by helicopter for multiple fractures and a gaping wound that wouldn’t stop bleeding.

Between the debilitating pain and medication-induced mental fog and nausea, I thought about the future.

How long would it take before I could be active again? Would I experience all the negative consequences of this injury the surgeon had told me about? With only one good arm, it was a tedious affair to peel and eat even half of a banana.

Between each bite, I noted not just its smell and texture, but also the funny little things about banana that had happened to me in the distant past.

Suddenly, all the unimportant things I had pushed aside during my busy career seemed so precious.

I wondered how I could have lived this long without missing their presence. The nurse came in and asked how I was doing. I said, “I’m in pain, and it’s a good thing.”           

Dr. Ivy Ge

Dr. Ivy Ge

Doctor of Pharmacy, author of The Art of Good Enough and Life Transformation Journal. She writes to inspire women to design their own fate. Her writings and interviews have been featured on MSNBC, Thrive Global, Working Mother magazine, Parentology, and The Times of India.

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